On Saturday, October 18, 2025, 7 million people stood up and sent a message to our President. It was the largest protest in the county’s history. There was no reported evidence of unlawful behavior, yet we were labeled as terrorists by the administration. I wonder if adding that to my resume would give me aContinue reading “Earning my terrorist title”
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Hate is taught
“We are not going to know anyone here tonight.” This was my warning comment to Rich, my husband, known to be a man of few words. Attending these events as a couple allows me to initiate conversations. I can even start one on a 47-second elevator ride. The valet took our car, and we steppedContinue reading “Hate is taught”
Life Lessons in Middle School
There were so many reasons to stay silent. It is easy; your social status remains unchanged, and you still get invited to the party. But at this point in my life, I don’t care if I am asked to those parties. One of the most profound experiences a child can face is the sting ofContinue reading “Life Lessons in Middle School”
Searching for answers, delivered with respect
Mothers know a car is the best place to have a serious conversation. “Can we go into the vault”? Ashton asked as she drove out of the parking lot after Mother’s Day breakfast. “I have something to tell you. I have not even told my sisters because I want you to hear it from meContinue reading “Searching for answers, delivered with respect”
Grit & Grace in 22
Last year brought signature moments, beginning with an elegant wedding ceremony on LBI for Ashton & Paul. The birth of our fifth grandchild, a daughter named Tessa, wound out their year. The surprise birthday party for Rich with all his children validated his wish for a big family. I fought for those who could notContinue reading “Grit & Grace in 22”
Building a life resume 30 day challenge
I could stay on the current path. The one that is familiar with no bumps because I know what to expect. The easy one because there are no surprises. The straight and flat one with no turns or hills to climb. But as Helen Keller said, “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing atContinue reading “Building a life resume 30 day challenge”
Time to Disrupt the Community College
“If I’m an advocate for anything, it’s to move. As far as you can, as much as you can. Across the ocean, or simply across the river. Walk in someone else’s shoes or at least eat their food”. Continue reading “Time to Disrupt the Community College”
“Certainty is the enemy of growth”
“Certainty is the enemy of growth” Mark Manson, “The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*CK” That was a hard read. Not the language, and yes I can hear my mother bristling in the background, but the message. Thoughts of my brother lay across the pages wound between the words. My first “certain” reaction was toContinue reading ““Certainty is the enemy of growth””
Happy 30th Birthday to Ashton, Brittany and Kierstyn
“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all” Helen Keller. Today you open a new chapter. The pages are turning swiftly and filled with new experiences and unfamiliar territory. This will prove to be the difference between existing and living. As I looked through pictures, while singing “Ashton Girl”, I savored the memoriesContinue reading “Happy 30th Birthday to Ashton, Brittany and Kierstyn”
Island Magic
Cuttyhunk Island is not for everyone. It is a place where children can bang the front door behind them after breakfast and stay away until dinner without a mother’s worry. It’s a place where leash-free and small, run leash-free – in search of another pup to play all day long. You don’t need make-up, fancyContinue reading “Island Magic”
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