Lessons from Pop Warner

Years ago, on fall Sunday mornings, I could hear the booming voice riding the wind up the hill. “And coming onto the field representing the Pee Wee team from Atlantic Highlands…” Young boys wearing equipment weighing twice their weight would proudly lumber onto the football field. My girls were cheerleaders. I would sit on theContinue reading “Lessons from Pop Warner”

Follow the bouncing ball

“You are a bouncer” My uncle announced after Thanksgiving dinner to my sister and I. Not the brand image I expected, but it made sense. “You keep moving. Something knocks you down, you bounce up.” I am flattered. Over the last years, I have followed the advice of people much smarter than me, and thereContinue reading “Follow the bouncing ball”

Passing of the torch

  Grant,  When I was growing up I wished that I had an older brother, one that would teach me life lessons and protect me from the “bad” guys.  I now know that birth order is inconsequential. I read an article years ago where the author wrote, “When you change your behavior others around youContinue reading “Passing of the torch”

Coming out of growth phase

A few months ago I sat here allowing the world to determine my self-worth. Almost by chance I read an article by Martha Beck, ” Off the Beating Path” where she writes “When the road of life gets bumpy (and then bumpier, and bumpier still), she suggests a radical solution: Stop, throw it in reverse,Continue reading “Coming out of growth phase”

Feeling the loss, cherishing the memories

Sadie entered our lives six years ago. She was timid, shy, and obedient; that is until she met Sophia. Together they dug under the fence to roam the neighborhood resulting in 2 calls from the police department. They watched Reese birth two litters of kittens, and when the kittens were old enough to venture awayContinue reading “Feeling the loss, cherishing the memories”